Yes to self-gifting
So..you ready for the holidays?
To those who celebrated Hanukkah, I hope it was a beautiful time with those you love.
In my household, my husband and I have a tradition where we write down a small note of reflection on the inside of the box that holds our Christmas decorations. Literally, I couldn’t believe we were lugging the decor out of the basement a few weeks ago (yes, I’m a November decorator - don’t mind if I do).
Didn’t we just put everything away?
2021.
I mean, what else was there to scribble but “we survived another year of COVID”.
And as we did, well - let me speak for myself… and as I did, I said goodbye to a toxic friendship, reaffirmed my views on key societal issues, accepted that my beloved pup of 20 years is now at rest, set some solid boundaries that are non-negotiable, gained clarity on my purpose, took a bold chance (hello Ibiza) and, firmly put my health and well-being first.
My friend Zak (hi Zak!) reminded me today of the single most important gift we can give; a gift to ourselves.
Patience.
Self-compassion.
Self-belief.
Health.
Encouragement.
Hope.
I could go on. And you likely have a ton to add to the list too.
The only constant we have is that time is ticking - whatever is important to you, the values you stand for, who you want to be - make it happen for yourself.
I put a gift under the tree for myself - as you see in the photo above.
What’s wrapped up?
I don’t know - I’ve promised myself I would keep it a secret but I think I’ll love it. I picked it out for myself after all 😜.
What’s one thing you’ll give to yourself this holiday season? For 2022?
I’d love to hear from you.
Have a lovely December.
Elena
